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There are people who show care not really because they care but because they are looking for something you may not be happy to give them on normal circumstances. Their care isn’t a display of genuine love but a manifestation of their gross selfishness and evil. Sometimes they don’t even know what they are doing, they think they are showing love anyway but truly they are being manipulated by their own greed and selfishness or lust! But sometimes many are aware of what they’re doing, very aware of the fact that they are out for a hunt! Such isn’t easily talked out of their game, they gain mastery of it and play it like the ‘devil on the chess table’.
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They surround themselves around you, call you every minute to make sure you are healthy and do all sort of things making you feel special. Do you know how a Christmas chicken is treated? It is treated with care! You make sure it eat good food, drink water and even take certain medications to ensure it doesn’t die before Christmas! Christmas chicken isn’t cared for because it is loved but because it has to go down on Christmas day! This is the same way many people lustfully care for their target but they want him or her to stay alive and committed for their satisfaction.
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How about those who set traps for rats but use foods the rat love to attract them to the trap? If the rat would talk and you’d love to listen to the testimonies of any who survived the trap, he’d tell you he thought anyone who dropped the food there cared about it! How about those who go fishing? They attract the fish with something the fish likes but when it comes along, it’s dead!
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This is why a married man would be taking care of a young girl, making her feel she is loved, meeting some of her needs and getting her heart tied to his palms with amazing gifts just for a reason… To have her sexually and keep having her until he is fed up! She would sheepishly feel loved, she would be priding in her ability to take away a man’s attention from his wife to herself and when she realizes what she has done to herself it would be too late. It isn’t just peculiar with married men… Women do theirs too and even young people who has no marriage plans yet are on same game! Sometimes they do worse… So you wouldn’t say I am picking on married men.
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You might have experienced people being nice to you not because they suddenly started liking you but because their is something they want from you that you really wouldn’t want to give them just like that and they would want to get into your emotions, play with it and make you surrender all of it! This is why you have to wise up! You’re still the one in charge, you don’t have to give people the space they don’t deserve in your heart!
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You know he is married, you know it is very wrong if he is getting so much attracted to you but you keep entertaining his informal and suspicious chats, calls, gifts and sometimes visits! You smile at his touch and even when you remove his hands you keep leaving the impression that says “you can have me if you try harder”. Instead of helping him put up a distance you keep making him want to come closer thinking you’d be able to handle it when the snake peers it’s ugly head. Believe me, the day you’ll fall, you will fall with your head and while you may recover, the effects may haunt you naturally till you’re translated into the spiritual realm.
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Why keep entertaining those chats you know shouldn’t happen in the first place? You shouldn’t appreciate a married man or woman’s constant attention on you when you know it isn’t genuine. You’ve got to protect yourself and also help them out by putting up a distant. I would always hear elders say then “when you make up your mind to eat with the devil, eat with a very long spoon”.
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Okay, I wanted it to be a short note.
Let’s just say the summary of this is “all love cares but not all care is the result of love. All lovers is are givers but not all givers are lovers. Don’t be deceived by care and gifts”
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#GracefulGeorge

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