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I impregnated a girl and I told her not to do abortion but because of what people will say she did it on her own without my concern will God ask for the blood from me? A 3 week old baby. – Identity Withheld
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First, whether it is a day old pregnancy, it is a baby created by God for a purpose. By terminating her, she murdered an innocent child for a very selfish reason. The reason is, she wants to appear clean and decent, she wants people to think who she is not and it is very appalling.
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People make mistakes, getting her pregnant was a mistake and choosing to take care of it was one great way of telling the world “we take responsibility of our mistakes”. Assuming I was in your shoes (I can’t anyway), I will do exactly what you did, I will ask her to keep the baby. On my own side, I can’t be dating a woman I can’t marry.
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You didn’t partner with her in the abortion and have nothing to be afraid of. Does that mean she has been aborting before? I wouldn’t say, you know her better!
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Now that it has happened, you still need to sit her down. Make her understand the grave consequences of what she has done, she murdered a child, an innocent Child just because she wants to protect her image! That is incredibly selfish! But don’t leave her there! God has plans for everyone and God still loves her as much as He loves a woman who married a virgin and served Him to a point of death!
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Both of you together can pray and accept God’s forgiveness as this may not be a healthy time to be asking “who is to be blamed?” You both can hold on to what God said in John 3:16… Regardless, God loves you both!
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The devil would want to capitalize on this and haunt you for life, he would want to make you feel guilty at all times and if you give him that chance, he can ruin your earthly life with it. Just release yourself to God and rest in His promises and eternal salvation. When you hear voices of accusations, always tell yourself “I am forgiven, sanctified and justified! God is pleased with me”
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Let me add….
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In the beginning of 2018 alone, I have counseled about 5 young persons who are directly or indirectly involved in considering an abortion. The count is on the increase and somehow we seem not to care about the process. When this happens, it is not just an egg flowing out as blood, it is a baby… A baby with future!
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Excuse me, why even engage in sex in the first place with someone you have no future with? Sex is meant to be enjoyed in a lasting union. I can’t see myself wasting my energy and enjoying pleasurable minutes with someone I am not tied to forever! We shouldn’t live carelessly! If she is good for sex, she should be good for a wife and a mother… We must be ready to face the consequences of our actions!
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You should not harm that baby because of your selfish reasons, you shouldn’t harm that baby because of your reputation! If your reputation didn’t stop you from getting pregnant in the first place, it should not make you harm that baby. A person is a person no matter how small… With tears in my eyes for all the babies murdered so far in the name of “rights” and “choices” I shout “NO TO ABORTION”.
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#GracefulGeorge

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